How To Save Yourself from the Lies of a Cheater

Posted by D3lux3 in Lying 101, Techniques on Sep 16th, 2009 | 2 responses

We all need to face the facts and realize that people cheat. People of both sexes are known to philander. Through years of evolution, we have been programmed for multiple partners. Diverse genes are what keep the species going, so due to evolution, a lot of people end up cheating on a significant other, even if they may care deeply for them.
While having more than one partner may be acceptable in nature, this can be devastating for almost any relationship! If your significant other is cheating on you, the chances are they are not going to tell you about it. Fortunately for you, I am going to share some basic tips that will help you know when someone is lying. This can save you from the stress and pain of having to put up with months of cheating.
You should be warned that there is never a 100% foolproof way of knowing when someone is lying, and even lie detectors are not always accurate. However, there are few easy things to look for that will help you to detect a liar. You should always pay attention to eye contact. If you are talking to your partner, or anyone for that matter, and they do not look you in the eye, or their eyes are constantly shifting throughout the room, they may not be telling the truth. Maintaining eye contact is one of the most important things you need to look for (and also one of the most important skills of a good liar).
You should also pay close attention to someone’s body language. You should look at their hands first. If their hands seem restless and they are not able to keep them still, this should be a red flag. Are they constantly scratching their nose or covering their mouth? If so, they could be lying.
Another helpful tip for spotting a liar is simply considering their attitude. If they seem to be acting overly defensive, or seem to be getting all worked up over nothing, this could be a sign of dishonesty. Especially if you know the person well, this could be a surefire way to sift out the truth.
The tips outlined in this guide can help you to spot lies so that you can avoid wasting your time and emotions on a cheater. These tips are not only helpful in a relationship, but also can be used in everyday life, especially if you have children! Knowing the difference from the truth and lies can be a central component of good parenting. If you do some research and practice these and other techniques, you can learn to spot a liar every time!

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